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5 ways to smoothly introduce your mate

found this topic interesting.
Although its not in use right now
but I would like to share it though =D


first of all,
prepare your mate
for an example, let him know what issues can't be triggered in your family
In case one of his sentence just easily strike a match, or cause a chaos.

disclose difficult details
Some family issues can be difficult to explain, though.
“My mother was a classic hoarder and, as she aged, her house got more and more crammed with stuff,”
“There would be stuff on every surface, including the dining room table. I always tried to explain the hoarding thing to my boyfriends beforehand but you really didn’t get the fullness of it until you saw it.”
See? Give some warning so your date’s not surprised. So he would get easier to deal with the situations.




set a time limit
Do something time-limited so your date doesn’t sit there with all these strange people for endless hours.
Bring your date over a couple of days before Christmas to help trim the tree. Then he wouldn't feel like a stranger when he gets over for Christmas later. HAHA

create a covert code
Developing secret signals can also be helpful as a way to navigate around potential rough spots.
Have a silent signal or two that you’ve agreed upon in advance, or perhaps pinch your date’s thumb surreptitiously to say, ‘Don’t go there’ or ‘Let’s leave now.’
Also, get an agreement in advance that if you change the subject, your date will go along with it.

anticipate flukes
Finally, try to remember that your family will sometimes surprise you with a bit of good behavior.
Try warning your boyfriend that my mom and sisters were notorious bickerers when I brought him home for Christmas. Ok my family is not like that.
but these are just some reference



interesting daily supplement!
;d read, and gain!

honey dont worry i aint gonna introduce you these ways hahahahha!
he must be laughing shit readin this ;D

love.